Here are just a few things to look for when you meet or date a girl/woman:
1. She has an open and welcoming smile that goes beyond the surface deep inside her eyes — the window to her soul. Her eyes and her whole demeanor kind of “lights up” when you walk into the room or towards her.
2. She let’s you be you. She does not want to change you – clean you up, re-make you or rename you etc – so she can love you but accepts you just the way you are.
3. She genuinely enjoys your company – isn’t afraid to ask for it or tell you that she enjoys being around you. Being around her feels like being around your best friend because you can truly be just yourself — no feeling like you’re always walking on egg-shells or trying too hard to please (and always coming short). The experience of being around her is “satisfying” in its own.
4. She goes out of her way to do things she thinks will make you happy. She’s the woman who’ll call you just to say “hi” or “I was thinking of you” however busy/tired she is.
5. She is independent and secure within herself. She does not need constant attention and does not put pressure on you to feed her self-esteem, anxiety or worries about the future.
6. She’s there for you when it’s up and when it’s down. She’s happy out in an expensive restaurant just as she’s happy sitting next to you on the couch, doing nothing.
7. She does what she says she will do. She does not play mind games but lets you know where you stand because she cares enough to treat others the way she’d like to be treated.
8. She believes that a relationship should be a 50/50 give-and- take partnership. With her it’s not always “Me, me, me” but “we” and “us”. Not only does she believe in a 50/50 give-and- take partnership, she takes her 50% part of the partnership seriously.
9. She shows respect for you not only in private but more so in public because she cares about how others see you and treat you.
10. She’s not just nice to people she has something to gain from but is kind and treats the doorman, the customer service rep, the waitress, the beggar on the street, a child, the elderly etc. with compassion and respect. This is a telling sign of how she’ll treat you once she feels she has you and isn’t trying to impress you anymore.
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