Studies have shown that women are more likely to fall in l0’ve with their secret aff@!r partner, which makes reconciliation complicated. Despite what most people believe, men are not the only ones who go out of their ways to ch3at on their spouses. Married women ch3at for a variety of reasons, most of which stem from unmet emotional needs. When a woman ch3ats, there’s a good chance she’s unhappy in her relationship and has given her situation a lot of thought.
But what are the reasons married women cheat on their husbands? What is driving more women into the arms of other men? Today we bring you the 10 important reasons women cheat on their husbands.
Women may not be as s3’x-driven as men, but they sure do crave int!m@cy. Just like a man feels stressed and bogged down with bills, jobs, kids and the everyday pressure to live up to expectation, most women get these feelings as well. When such happens, she feels less desired. They then see the man outside who desires them as the real man.
The attention of another man may become irresistible if she doesn’t feel that same p@ssion and connection at home. Low self-esteem may exacerbate the problem as being pursued by another man or engaging in a st3amy s3xu@l relationship can, at least temporarily, be a real ego-booster.
2. Women Want To Be Heard To Feel Heard
Women like to share their feelings and be heard but most times, their husbands are not willing to give them listening ears. Some men have a limited capacity for listening, especially after years of marriage and hearing the same stories over and over again.
Most women play many roles in their family, bouncing from mother and wife to housekeeper, breadwinner, nurse and caregiver.
If a husband does not appreciate her contributions, chances are that another man will show that appreciation and she would naturally feel connected to such a man.
4. Women Want To Feel Connected
It is said that after years of a monogamous relationship, one or both partners may check out emotionally. Perhaps they haven’t spent enough quality time together and their interests have diverged.
5. Women Want To Feel Excited
Women would surely remember the good times, especially when she and her husband were dating, how her face lit up every time she saw her man, when the s3’x was thrilling and when a twinge of nervousness surfaced every time he called.
Living and having s3’x with the same person for years can get boring and predictable if both parties let it. She may feel that sizzle of new l0ve with another man who makes grand r0mantic gestures to win her over. Disillusioned by her partner’s flaws or the drudgery of daily life, she may begin looking for someone new to spice up her life.
A research on why women cheat once stated that women are most likely to cheat between the ages of 30 and 50. This is when the mid-life crisis sets in because at these ages women may long for the days when they felt v!v@cious, allur!ng and confident. Once the kids get older and they have more time and energy, women may try to revisit their youth.
If a husband cheats and the wife finds out, some women could feel the sense of revenge and what better way than to give him back in his own coins.
Maybe s3’x with her husband is dwindling and the fun is no more there; maybe she is not getting enough s3’x or the husband is not just getting her excited any longer and s3’x is just a monotonous part of their relationship.
The man outside would not mind helping her realize her s3’xual fantasies and trying out the s3’x positions she secretly hoped her husband would try out one day, and in that case, she is willing to give it a shot.
A marriage where there is domestic violence is a recipe for inf!d3lity. If a husband is fond of beating his wife, she would definitely seek out a man who will give her the shoulder to lean on.
The innocent friendship could get physical and if care is not taken, could lead to s3xu@l int!m@cy.
She could also do it to prove a point to her husband, that if he hates her so much as to beat her, another man is out there who desires to comfort her.
A woman may feel the need to be adventurous; the fl!rt!ng, the secret d@ting, the stolen s3x, the sneaking around and all that.
Women are also better at hiding their aff@!rs. It isn’t that unusual for a woman to have an aff@!r for years without telling a soul or giving any indication of a problem.
The secrecy may stem from cultural and social norms which demand that women remain loyal to their husbands and avoid sl33ping around to protect their reputations.
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